Mud on the Mountain 2013

Earlier today, I glanced down at  my knee and realized I still have several “active”, red bruises on my knees from this year’s Mud on the Mountain…which promptly reminded me I forgot to give you the breakdown of how it went this time around.

The Friday evening before, Greg and I headed up to Seven Springs to get a good night’s sleep. Luckily, one of us (him) looked at the weather and made sure we packed some long sleeve clothes. The temperature on Sunday for the Half Marathon had been perfect, low 70s, but the forecast was not looking swell for Mud on the Mountain…snow was even a possibility in the early morning.

We checked in to the hotel (which I wasn’t excited about–I do NOT like the rustic feel of the resort) and were told we were on the 10th floor, the top floor. When we got to the room, I could have jumped on the bed. The place was gorgeous, clearly renovated, and made me very happy. As much as I liked the room, it didn’t take much to convince me to go down to the swimming pool for a ‘lil bit. Greg, as usual, took an opportunity to dive (the number of pools we’ve been at that are deep enough for this could be counted on one hand). I had a first time experience of diving. Sure…it wasn’t beautiful, but it happened. When we got back to the room, we set out our clothes and got rest.

In the morning, my nerves were up. Maybe it’s because I kept going out on our porch and watching the Elite Runners come down the icy, snow hill to the finish line.

Yuck, right? There really was no turning back, though, and we got dressed in our 2012 MOTM shirts and checked our bags and headed to the start line with a good 3 minutes to spare.

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It was frigid, but not raining…until the exact moment of 10:30 as we crossed the start line.

This year, I actually jogged up part of the first hill and got to the top before a good 10 other people (versus being next to last the first time). And this is when the rain really mattered. Planning at the first obstacle was awful. We hit the back of the 10:15 wave trying to cross the first wall. The rain came down harder and the wind picked up. I stood shivering and decided I wasn’t doing the wall, wanted to keep moving. But, you see, this is very much a team event and I needed to wait for Greg to get his chance to climb the wall. He didn’t get to do so until after the 10:45 wave had been standing with us for about 15 minutes. So…calculate that. We essentially waited 30 minutes to cross one set of boards. Ugh.

By the time we got moving again, I really couldn’t move. There was so much mud this year, which is exactly what I wanted…but my legs were frozen. I warmed up a little and moved from the mud to the grass and then back again. My knees were not liking the mud, feet sliding left and right. At the cheese grater, Greg flew down the obstacle and I got a burst of energy and jumped into a fast lane, too. Little did we know the bottom of the grater was full of a few feet of cold water.

The next few miles were tough, but not unbearable. I loved that we actually had granite to scamper over for a good portion of the woods, and the added crawling obstacles were fun (until I hit my knee and had to crawl on my hip–ouch).

Greg was enjoying it, but I could tell I was holding him up. We got to an obstacle I know I couldn’t do–inclined monkey bars. Greg was incredible at this one. After that, it was waiting about 20 minutes at another wall. We traversed some more mud, I got mud and rocks places that never should (including some cuts), and we had some good laughs. There was one point I definitely sat down and said I was done, but my motivator kept me going.

And then…we hit the nail biter. The volunteer told me I couldn’t go in the side I picked, she wanted me to go on the easy side. I wasn’t having it, and powered through this one. It was a wall with itty bitty foot and hand holds. What I did not realize? The ground below got lower as we got to the end. Greg had gone through another one, and I could see him jump a good distance off the wall. I didn’t know what I was going to do, and an anxiety attack promptly ensued. I had to go to the other side of the wall to let others come through. My knees and hands shook. I cried. Greg eventually convinced me to jump into his arms. I told him what happened at the beginning, and I had to convince him not to go run his mouth. We moved on after my breathing returned to normal and a fellow runner tapped me on the back and said, “You got this”.

Our Trout Line strategy was to have me go on a line with other women my height while Greg went with taller guys. This worked well…until a man jumped on my line and was swaying it. I felt stretched so far that I couldn’t move. Tension released and I was able to finish it…only to be greeted with the need to pick up a log and walk up a ski slope. I took the equivalent of a twig and had to drop it at the top–my arms were jello. Greg made up for it and carried a log that was probably once a tree trunk.

Next was the final up-hill, marked with the 7-mile marker as we approached it. Apparently only 0.7 was left. I don’t believe this. That last hill kept going and going. The obstacles at the top weren’t crazy, but I was exhausted. We met up with one of my co-workers and her sister and started down the snow. I sat on my butt, lying down at one point, and froze. Mt. Everest wasn’t a bad climb this year, but my muscles were mush. As we descended this last part, we realized we had to hit some ice cold water before getting our medals.

A few photos, a banana, hard bagel, and watered down lemon lime Gatorade then off to hose off and get warm. This was not an easy task, considering my whole back side was near frostbite from my decision to sit versus try.

All in all, it hurt a bit, was physically and emotionally exhausting (more so than the Half). Would I do it again? Probably. Even if it was after running a half 6 days before? Maybe. We’ll see. I mean, this is definitely worth it:

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(Especially when you compare last year’s photo!)

Toddler Time at Sky Zone #PittsburghParents

If you’re like my family and bummed out the the rain is coming through town and cooler weather is back (boo!), Sky Zone in Leetsdale  has a great way to beat the weather blues. Come jump at Toddler Time!

Sky Zone is a new attraction in Pittsburgh (on 65) where kids of all ages can have “bouncing off the walls fun”, literally. And now, starting tomorrow (Friday, May 24), there is a time dedicated just for the toddlers to jump in this indoor trampoline wonderland.

Children 4 and under are invited to this special weekly Toddler Time on Fridays from 2:00 – 3:00 PM. The cost is $9 (+tax and shoes). If you want to get in as much jumping time as you can, fill out the waiver online before you go or print a copy and take it with you.

This special toddler time definitely would be something my kids (who happen to be jumping on the couch as I type this…ahem…) would enjoy. While we can’t make it tomorrow, the toddler time will be one of Sky Zone’s regular programs and there are plenty of other times we could go and jump. Check them out!

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Here’s some more information on Sky Zone:

Sky Zone Indoor Trampoline Park is creator of the world’s first all-trampoline, walled playing court providing the ultimate 3-D play experience for teens, parents and kids to jump, leap and defy gravity on the patented all-trampoline walled playing court. Fit for the entire family, jumpers can participated in popular activities including 3-D Dodgeball, SkyRobics fitness classes, SkySlam basketball, and traditional Open Jump. For more information, please visitwww.skyzonesports.com.

Sky Zone Leetsdale | 740 Brickworks Drive | Leetsdale, PA 15056

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Disclaimer: I was sent a media advisory on this event and I wanted to share with you because I love sharing ‘Burgh events for families. No compensation was received, just a smile knowing that there’s another cool place to take my kids!

 

Saying Sorry

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Last week, Arianna came home with bad news. She got in trouble at school, for sticking her tongue out at the teacher.

We were all shocked. The teacher was surprised she acted out, first big deal in two years. Greg and I were surprised it took so long. You see…she’s a typical kid. One way at school, another at home. ;)

Greg helped her sound out the letters to write this note for the teacher. Sometimes saying sorry and really meaning it goes a long way.

The things we can all use to learn from a kid, huh?

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Wordless Wednesday: Coffee For a Cause

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Evan and I were happy to drink some iced coffee to support the Charlie Batch Foundation. Yum!

Something Right

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I may not be able to jump back in the saddle and run a nice distance yet, but I must be doing something right.

I may not be able to reply to mail, pay bills a week ahead, or realize my library books had a one week (not three) return date, but I must be doing something right.

I may not be able to hold a conversation at the same time as trying to get through a business book or hold my tongue instead of snapping back an insincere “I’m sorry”, but I must be doing something right.

I may not be the perfect mother, wife, cousin, or friend, but I must be doing something right.

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Tonight’s post is brought to you by the blogger who realizes blogging, parenting, marriage, friendship, life isn’t always Pinterest Perfect. Nor should it be. Be thankful for the small, beautiful things. Like your 4 year old reading you Spoon. Enjoy these moments and don’t snap when the going gets a little uneasy.

Removes blogging hat and reads the above to herself. Amen to that.

On the Side: Roasted Zucchini

How about a new feature to lighten up the food this summer? I will try to bring you several amazing dishes using summer foods, goodies that have become a staple for us as I work off the pounds.

This is a simple side dish I learned go love while working at Pizza Hut with coworkers in Weight Watchers. So easy and delicious, and a side you could do in the oven or on the grill.

Ingredients:
1 zucchini, sliced in “spears” or rings
Seasoning (My choice is McCormick’s Italian Herb Seasoning Grinder), to taste
Bread Crumbs (Prefer Panko around here), to taste
Olive Oil spray

Directions:
1. Pre-heat oven to 425F.
2. While heating, coat cookie sheet in spray and line zucchini up.
3. Spray tops of zucchini with OO spray. Top with seasonings and flip.
4. Repeat.
5. Place in oven 10 minutes. Flip. Repeat.
6. Enjoy…dip in a nice tomato basil sauce if you wish!

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Not Just Any Play House

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It is a beautiful day here in Pittsburgh, and we took advantage of sprucing up the yard for summer. That includes patio prep and cleaning the toys.

Yesterday, I asked Greg to clean the kids’ play house, but while he is off getting fill dirt, I decided to clean it instead. Why? Because even though he is good at cleaning things and this was an easy honey-do list item, I really don’t think he would put the care into cleaning it like I would. That sounds really mean…but let me explain, okay?

This isn’t just any play house. This is my play house. Greg would clean it the same way I did, heck, maybe even a little cleaner, but he would not put the heart into it that I did. And maybe, just maybe, I really needed the cleansing practice of cleaning this house.

As I cleaned the play house, I thought about what it meant to me. The memories began to flow:
* Pretending the play house was a drive through–and realizing Arianna does this, too.
* Eating my first ever onion rings inside it on the porch of our house at Wall–one of my earliest memories of time with my cousin Richie! (Burger King, too.)
* Watching my brother through the windows when we lived in Brookville.
* Serving as a clubhouse for Elizabeth and I in Wren…and writing names of our crushes using squiggle pens and dot matrix printer paper.
* Watching the house get packed up on moving truck after moving truck from Wren, to Brookville, to Townville, to Ford City. My parents had plenty of yard sales, but they never sold this childhood treasure, keeping it in pristine condition.
* Watching a 9-month-old Arianna poke her head out of it to watch her cousins playing in my parents’ yard.
* My dad bringing it to our first house so Arianna (and now Evan) can enjoy it just as much.

That house is almost 30 years old, but I cannot tell. The only thing “dating” it is the corded phone, which the kids sort of understand. I will be sure we keep it clean and ready for the next adventures. Maybe we will even be able to use it for another generation of Peterson or Willis kids, who knows!

That house sure isn’t just another play house handed down on Craigslist. It has a heart and soul, and deserved the bath it got today.

Thank You All

For those of you who may not know, one of my young cousins was missing yesterday. She returned home safely after about 28 hours, but we continue to pray for her and the family. This morning I woke with words spewing on a Facebook status and decided to share with you here instead.

What a blessing to wake up (shhhh I slept in for once) knowing my family has so much love and support holding us together. We used social media together for a good thing. Let’s keep that alive and continue to pray for each other every day and not just on the good or bad ones. Have to thank everyone who was so supportive of us yesterday from retweets, shares, texts, emails, calls, kind words, understanding my absent mind, Qdoba comfort food, answering legal questions, making work wins possible, or offering a smile. My support system truly is awesome.

Happy photo of Evan to make us smile? Yes, please!!!

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“50 Rules for Sons”: Review and Giveaway!

This post includes a review and a giveaway. While I received a complimentary copy of the book and one to share, all opinions are my own.

While I love having a son, I have to admit—it’s not always easy for a woman to understand the things that drive a ‘lil boy to be just the way he is. I understand wanting to play in dirt, but the urge to bite and jump off the tops of couches just kind of boggles my mind. Greg is a great role model for our son, but in the back of my mind, I just have this fear about raising a son. While I can’t explain it, I just know it’s there.

Evan is just a ‘lil guy, but he can use every chance we get to pass words of wisdom (beyond “don’t bite your sister”—I really need to tell some of these stories). The lessons he learns today will definitely impact how he acts as a young man and beyond.

That’s why I am happy we are now armed with “50 Rules for Sons” a new book from Tim Hoch.  Tim wrote this book of 50 rules (in a brief format, a hit with the “140-character generation”) for his son’s high school graduation. In the book, there are 50 quips about life tied into rules for boys and men. Honestly, they are rules even women can learn from. I was really impressed by the brief rules and photos and then loved even more the back stories in the second half of the book (all Hoch’s explanations of the rules tied to events in his life).


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My favorite was “Rule 2:  Don’t let a painful past own you, but keep the scars from the past close at hand. They’re part of you.” I really need to learn from that one!

My least favorite, as a tattoo fan was rule 24 were he suggests wearing a shirt for two years and seeing if you still like it…then go for the tattoo. Honestly, Greg and I will probably sit beside the kids when they are 18 and getting a tattoo (if that’s what they want).

Evan will definitely be given this copy before he starts high school. Perhaps you know a young man in your life that could use this book…a new mom and dad of a baby boy…a high school graduate…a brother starting a new job. This would be the perfect book for any “son” of any age as they’ll surely benefit from the wisdom within. You can get a copy for $9.95 through retailers (or check out www.50rulesforsons.com) OR stick around here, leave me a comment, and I’ll select one lucky winner to receive a copy of this book!

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Contest rules:

One entry per person per day

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Leave a comment (once per day) below

Winner to be drawn on May 24 and will have 48 hours to reply.

Prize value: $9.95 + shipping

Failure (a Bad Morning)

This was a bad morning in the world of the ladies of ‘lil Burghers. It got real and fast. I go back and forth about sharing, but I need people to understand that being a mom, being a parent, is not always easy or pretty.

You see, Greg and I have a man cold. I’m calling it man cold because I have never felt this way before and am a miserable person. Yet, because I am a woman, a working mom, I shower, dry my hair so it looks half decent (okay, it looked pretty darn good for me today), and pull on my big girl panties and go to work. Greg’s “lucky”, ha. Not really. He has to deal with being all out sick and having to play 2,000 questions all day and keep ‘lil Man from biting his big sister’s back (true story, happened on Monday night and I have no idea how one ‘lil mouth gets on someone’s flat back…but I am straying off course here).

Anyways, I was in the midst of getting ready and told Arianna to brush her hair. Four minutes went by and she was still stalling, just standing and watching me. I lost my ever loving mind. “You know, kid? You have one job to do as a four-year-old and that job is to listen. You don’t have to put on a show that you feel fine and go and do grown up stuff. You just have to listen to your parents and today you failed.” Oh my gosh. I said that to my kid. I wasted my energy and what little voice I had to be so evil to my kid. I told her she failed.

Immediately she brushed her hair then exited the bathroom stage right. She wouldn’t talk to me, and I was in tears for telling her she failed. I mean, c’mon Beck. She’s four years old. It’s not failure. The only failure that was going on was me being a good parent and just brushing her hair for her. But I was afraid to fail and be late dropping her off at school. I was afraid if I didn’t tell her to do something for her self I’d be failing in setting her up for an independent lifestyle. I just couldn’t win. When you add a “go get ‘em” attitude to a man cold to dealing with a four year old, it’s just bad, bad news.

Did I fail as a mom? No, I don’t think completely. Did I fail a parenting test? Sure. But I think all parents are going to do that from time to time, right? Did she come back in the bathroom a few minutes later and apologize? Yes. Did I apologize? You’d better believe it, hugs and tears, too. Did we have a good rest of the morning? Sure. But does it still hurt? A ‘lil bit. Will we survive and grow? Absolutely.

Being a parent sure isn’t always rainbows. I am sure I am not alone in my woopsie today, right? As a parent, or a child, what lessons have you learned about tough love or parenting while sick? Leave me some love today, k?

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Arianna last year in our garden…something she is very much looking forward to this year…and today was a gorgeous day to think about summer, huh?

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